THE LAST LECTURE

by Randy Pausch with Jeffrey Zaslow

A Guide for Educators, Parents, and Book Clubs
(taken from http://www.thelastlecture.com/pdf/LastLecture_EdGuide.pdf)

The Last Lecture is a memoir, a celebration of life, and a testament
to the power of childhood dreams. But it is also, perhaps most of
all, a book of lessons.

The book is filled with all the ideas and observations that Randy Pausch
wanted to share with his three young children. “These are the things I won’t
get the chance to tell them over the next twenty years,” he said. “I’m trying to
put myself in a bottle that will one day wash up on the beach for them.”
After the book was released, Randy was most moved and pleased to
learn that educators — middle- and high-school teachers, as well as college
professors — were showing the video of his lecture to their students, and
then using the book as a companion teaching tool. Randy was also thrilled
to receive countless emails from parents saying that the lessons in the book
were resonating in their households, too — that they were using the book to
spark a dialogue with their own children.

Questions:

Why has this lecture/book struck a chord with so many people?

Where is the speaker/author “coming from”?

What are my childhood dreams? How might I achieve them?

What were the dreams my parents had and how did they fulfill them?

Who are mentors I can turn to? What lessons have they taught me?

And what wisdom would I choose to impart to the world if it was my last chance? What are the
lessons of my own life?

Introduction
Randy Pausch describes his cancer as “an engineering problem.” How was this a helpful way to look
at his illness?
He talks about the lecture as a means of expression, and a way to reach his kids: “If I were a
painter, I would have painted for them. If I were a musician, I would have composed music. But I
am a lecturer. So I lectured.” There are so many ways to communicate. What are your own avenues
for self-expression?

Randy has always recognized the importance of time management. What did you think of his
decision to work on the book while riding his bike?

Chapter 1: An Injured Lion Still Wants to Roar
Randy almost didn’t go to Pittsburgh to deliver his last lecture. His wife Jai had wanted him to stay
home with her and the kids. What did you learn from his discussions with her about this?
Randy chose “Really Achieving Your Childhood Dreams” as the topic for his lecture. In what
ways would this allow him to tell the story of his life, and to enable the dreams of others?

Chapter 3: The Elephant in the Room
Randy decided to begin his talk in a specific way – showing his CT scans, introducing “the elephant
in the room,” assuring everyone he’s not in denial, and doing push-ups. What made this effective?
What were you thinking watching this for the first time via video?

Chapter 4: The Parent Lottery
Randy said he realized many of his dreams because he had terrific parents. What details from his
childhood do you think led to the successes he had later in life? Are there lessons in Randy’s story
for people who’ve had less-fulfilling childhoods, or absentee parents? What advice might you give
to those who didn’t win “the parent lottery”?

Chapter 5: The Elevator in the Ranch House
In his talk, Randy encouraged parents to allow their children to paint on their bedroom walls. “As
a favor to me,” he said, “let ’em do it. Don’t worry about the home’s resale value.” The real message
he says he was trying to give was this: Find ways to help your kids be creative. Nurture those
instincts in them.
What would you paint on your bedroom walls if you were given permission to do so? What
other creative outlet would you like to pursue, if your parents gave the OK?

Chapter 6: Getting to Zero G
The chapter ends with the line: “If you can find an opening, you can probably find a way to float through
it.” What’s the lesson to be learned from Randy’s attempts to get onto that “Vomit Comet”?

Chapter 7: I Never Made It to the NFL
This is a chapter about football, but so many of the lessons in it can apply elsewhere in our lives:
Talk about ways fundamentals are important off the playing field, too.
Randy believed our critics are often the ones saying they still care about us. How in your own
life has a critic helped you become a better person?
Randy loved using “head fakes.” What are some other head fakes that teachers and parents
have used?

Chapter 11: The Happiest Place on Earth
Throughout the book, Randy says: “Brick walls are there for a reason. They’re not there to keep us
out. The brick walls are there to give us a chance to show how badly we want something.”
What are the brick walls you’ve faced in your own life? How did you get over them?

Chapter 12: The Park Is Open Until 8 p.m.
In this chapter, we see Randy as an advocate for his own medical care. We also get a sense of how he
decided to adopt a positive attitude. Have there been people in your own life who’ve faced the challenge
of serious illness? What did you learn from them? How has Randy’s journey made you consider
how you’ll approach your own mortality?

Chapter 14: The Dutch Uncle
Randy credits his professor Andy van Dam with telling him the tough-love things he needed to hear.
What was it about Dr. van Dam’s delivery and message that resonated with Randy? Who in your own
life has told you things about yourself that made you reconsider your actions or behavior?

Chapter 15: Pouring Soda in the Backseat
Throughout the book, Randy makes a distinction between “people” and “things.” What did you
think of his decision to empty that can of soda in the backseat of his car?

Chapter 17: Not All Fairy Tales End Smoothly
In this chapter and chapter 19 (about the birth of his son) Randy reminds readers that even wonderful
life events – such as a wedding or the birth of a child – are fraught with unexpected dangers. What
did you learn from the way Randy and Jai handled the problems before them in these chapters?

Chapter 18: Lucy, I’m Home
Was Randy right? Was there no need to fix the dents in those two damaged cars?

Chapter 21: Jai
It is clear in the book that Randy and Jai have a deep love for one another. And yet, like other married
couples, they’ve had to work hard on their relationship. Randy’s illness created additional challenges.
By reading about how they’ve faced the issues between them, what did you learn about getting along
with others, about mutual respect, and about the power of love?

Chapter 23: I’m on My Honeymoon, But If You Need Me…
What do you think of Randy’s time-management tips? Would you have walked out of that grocery
store, knowing you overpaid by $16.55? Do you have to-do lists?

Chapter 24: A Recovering Jerk
Randy believes the number one goal for educators should be helping students learn how to judge
themselves. How crucial do you think this is in the learning process? Have you relied on feedback
loops in your own life? Has anyone ever told you that you were being a jerk?

Chapter 27: The Promised Land
Randy and his colleagues tried to attract girls into the field of computer science. He’s proud of “The
Alice Project,” and calls it his greatest legacy. What advice would you give to his colleagues, as they
go about trying to carry on Randy’s vision?

Chapter 28: Dream Big
Randy missed the 1969 moonwalk because he was sent to bed by camp counselors. Have you ever
wished adults in your life were less rigid? What advice would you give to adults about helping kids
to dream big?

Chapter 29: Earnest Is Better Than Hip
Do you agree with Randy? Is earnest better than hip? Is fashion truly commerce masquerading as
hip? Or can fashion be a way in which people express themselves?

Chapter 32: Don’t Complain, Just Work Harder
Randy admired Sandy Blatt and Jackie Robinson because they didn’t complain. As Randy put it:
“Complaining is not a strategy.” Do you agree?

Chapter 35: Start By Sitting Together
Have you ever had trouble working in groups? How might Randy’s tips help you get along better
with others in the future?

Chapter 39: Be the First Penguin
Randy writes that “experience is what you get when you didn’t get what you wanted.” How do you
think his First Penguin Award was able to inspire his students?

Chapter 41: The Lost Art of Thank-You Notes
Do you agree with Randy that handwritten thank-you notes, even in our computer age, can offer a
kind of magic? When was the last time you sent a handwritten thank-you?

Chapter 47: A Bad Apology Is Worse Than No Apology
Randy describes two “classic bad apologies.” Have you ever given someone such an apology? How
did it turn out?

Chapter 55: All You Have to Do Is Ask
What would you like to ask for that you haven’t been able to find the courage to articulate? What
do you think will happen if you “just ask”?

Chapter 56: Make a Decision: Tigger or Eeyore
OK. So which one are you? And why? If you’d like to be more of a Tigger, how might you go about
that?

Chapter 59: Dreams for My Children
Randy says parents don’t realize the power of their words: “Depending on a child’s age and sense
of self, an offhand comment from Mom or Dad can feel like a shove from a bulldozer.” Have you
ever felt that way?
What are the vital messages to be drawn from the way Randy is saying goodbye to his kids,
and from the tangible things he is leaving behind for them?

Chapter 61: The Dreams Will Come to You
Randy realized that he didn’t give the lecture because he wanted to. He gave it because he “had to.”
Are there things inside of you that “need to come out”?
As you read this final chapter of the book, what were the emotions you were feeling?
How would you describe the legacy of Randy Pausch?